My 40th Wedding — I shot my 40th wedding on Sunday, seven years and six days after my first solo wedding.
Prior to that first solo wedding, I had shadowed/ second shot precisely one wedding. And at that wedding, I mostly learned exactly what I didn’t want to do/ how I didn’t want to treat my brides and their families.
Sunday’s wedding was hectic, but very well organized and a morning wedding, just like my own wedding to Jared was. My arrival time was 6:45 am, but the exit ended up being around 1:30 pm and I was free to go.
Those of you who have known me for any length of time know that I go through phases with shooting weddings and the photography business. I am not shutting down the photography business, but I am re-thinking my relationship to weddings. It might be awfully nice to go out on a high note.
The dream was only to ever shoot a single wedding, just to say I had done it. But I refused to do it at all without being a legitimate business, with the LLC, and the business license, and the insurance, etc. I knew enough from my legal issues in photography class at Emory Continuing Ed to know better than to do it any other way.
And here I am, seven years and six days after that first wedding, and that dream of wanting to shoot a single wedding has turned into 40 weddings under my belt. I know to a lot of my photog friends 40 weddings is not a lot at all in that time span, but to this girl it has been plenty.
My 40th Wedding and a Full Heart
40 weddings, and I’ve only missed a single kiss and that was because the kiss literally didn’t happen at all. And there have been some really, really fast kisses.
I’ve only given one refund and that was to someone who really didn’t deserve one, probably the wedding I worked the hardest at, but I was too afraid of a frivolous bad review and figured if they needed the money badly enough to raise complaints that weren’t even really legitimate, then they needed the money more badly than I did. They even got their USB drive of their pictures anyway.
My 40th Wedding
I’ve steamed dresses, served as coordinator and photographer, shot weddings as far as over 125 miles away, shot at Big Canoe and Lake Lanier (Lake Lanier was my third wedding!), shot at countless small barn venues. I’ve calmed down brides, I’ve calmed down mother-of-the-brides. Just Sunday I climbed the tiniest but fairly tall metal spiral staircase not meant to be climbed by anybody but maintenance, to get a stained glass window shot of the bride in her dress, and told Shelley as I was climbing down it was definitely something my orthopedic surgeon would have advised against doing. I’ve shlepped it across hot fields in the middle of summer to get between a brides’ getting ready room and a groom’s getting ready room. I’ve shot in the pouring down rain. I’ve driven 3 hours to a wedding, shot a ten-hour wedding day, and then driven the 3 hours home again.
40 weddings, and my heart is full. Back when I started dreaming of photographing a wedding, I thought I could only be really good at photographing inanimate, sentimental objects around my house, or landscape shots around town. And to think, the dream was only ever to shoot a single wedding just to say I had done it. And here I am, 40 weddings and quite a few five-star reviews later.
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